An entire family or a society can be healed or transformed by one person who is awake and willing to be present... willing to ... willing....
In the sung words of Mr. Jackson (written by Siedah Garrett) "I'm startin' with the man in the mirror"!

I say, .when all you have is what you know to know.. when all you want is what you wish, work, or will for... that is exactly when you are to know without doubt, you are that, and that is you. Doubting or thinking anything other than this? is where the problem may lay... just sayin'.

"Would have liked to have known you, but I was just a kid" <metaphorically speaking> sometimes as ancient redwoods can still sway in a wind storm...as an Adults' caliber, can sway, when faced with a challenging storm of....
Standing strong, tried, and true, and knowing when to sway.. the most important parts of the "action" in regards to making it through the "storm"... usually? like nature, or a challenge there really is no ability to do anything about it, but