I have been married to Maria for 17 years. I have a daughter (16) and two sons (8 and 13). I'm an ambulance dispatcher and have worked in Wellington for the past nine years. My new hobby is flying remote controlled helicopters (more like crashing them at the moment). At least this gets me outside and away from the computer. I love music and drive my wife insane with loud rock music. I'm a gentle sensitive person and my kids get away with murder. I am obsessive at work and drive my boss insane with my quest to be the best and because he's English. I don't like confrontation and will try to keep everyone happy if I can. I share my mothers gift for cooking and love of food. I am a computer addict according to my wife but I cook and clean so that must count for something.