To explain my name. Bear because I'm a deadhead dancing bear & poi because I love to dance while spinning my poi. Hence, dancing bear that spins poi, poibear. I am a bisexual structural engineering wild child and a deadhead from way back who likes all kinds of music. Jam bands, John Butler Trio, Keller Williams, Rusted Root, Allman Brothers, Disco Biscuits, psytrance/electronica, just about everything. Monogamy is not for everyone and definitely not for me. I consider myself to be free spirit who believes that sharing ones self with another is a gift that allows each other mind blowing pleasures.
There is no reason why people should feel that they belong to someone or someone belongs to them. That just breeds jealousy. Why are divorces so high and so many people cheat on one another. Love yourself and share your love with everyone you meet. Making another persons day better is what we all should strive to do. That would make the world a better place.
I like to vacation in the Caribbe