What you see is what you get. I am who I am and I don't try to be somebody I'm not. If I can be myself around you, then we will be friends. If I am uncomfortable around you, you need to keep moving. Life is way too short not to be happy. And happiness starts with self. I love from deep in my soul and give all that have to the people that I love. My kids are the most important people in my life. But above everything else, God comes first. He controls my life and the people that He allows to be in it.