All truths are easy to understand once they are discovered,the point is to discover them...

... I learned some things .......
... you can not make someone love you, all you can do is to be a lover, the rest ... depends on others;
... I learned that two people can watch the same thing and see something totally different;
... I learned that background and circumstances may influence your personality, but that you are responsible for what you become;
... I learned that you can continue long after you said that you can not;
... I learned that when I'm upset right to be upset, but I have a right to be and bad;
... I learned that when you think you got nothing to give, when a friend call you you can find the power to help;
... I learned that your life can be changed within hours by people who did not know you ...
.... and how many-or longer to learn ...