I no longer get stressed out about minor things, everyone has there own problems without hearing about mine, life is too short. My sense of humour is VERY intact.

I wish I had been more honest with myself when I first thought I had health issues then I would not have let down family, friends and workmates :(.

Still it's not too late.

To help me through my battle with cancer, I have decided to revisit my love of music and art and design.

I am a very keen musician with an extensive knowledge of vintage analog synthesizers and Mellotrons. I love Progressive Rock music, with a special affection for some of the more classically influenced bands, eg. The Enid etc.

My other interests include photography - both digital and film. Heritage railways and the National Trust.

I like HOLES ... mainly mines ("mines" not "mine") and caves that are large enough to take my fat frame. I belong to the Wealden Cave and Mine Society and find them to be a fantastic bunch of people.

Despite my age,