“u can shed tears that he is gone, or you can smile because he has lived. u can close ur eyes and pray that he'll come back, or u can open ur eyes&see all he's left. ur heart can be empty because you can't see him, or u can be full of the love u shared. u can turn ur back on tomorrow&live yesterday, or u can be happy 4 tomorrow because of yesterday. u can remember him only that he is gone, or u can cherish his memory&let it live on. u can cry&close ur mind, be empty&turn your back. Or u can do what he'd want: smile,open ur eyes, love&go on.” just a little something my friend wrote too me too remind me keep my head up.