I am almost self suffeiciant.. lol I do need the occassional help with gas and food and a place to do laundry lol but it is what it is. Lately my biggest philosophy has revolved around "when the dust settles" with every new quirk and twist that can send us onto a fit of drama and have us lose focus on life it self the best moments are when the Dust Settles. It's who is there before you standing beside you and rooting for you as well as who you stand by and support that gives life the kick we reach for, the richness beyond material needs, and sows the seeds of love :) Yay I made it to FORTY :)