Like Oscar Wilde, I do not suffer fools lightly.

Please do not try to "friend" me if you don't actually know me unless you either add the personal message or send me a private message and let me know who YOU are and why you would like to friend me. I don't collect FB friends and would prefer to only have as friends those with whom I have something in common. Thanks.

Now, 'bout me...

I'm a paradox, a cynic who tries to look on the bright side, someone who generally expects the worst of people (and is therefore seldom surprised) yet manages to avoid being bitter. I dislike the majority of people on the planet but like people enough to try to get out there and find the truly fine ones worth knowing. I enjoy a quiet evening by the fireplace with a good book and my solitude and equally enjoy a good romp in the mosh pit should the occasion arise.