Selecting Anything vs. Being Selective

I recently had a phone call with one of my favourite coaches JuVan Langford, and during the conversation, he said, “are you selecting anything or being selective?”
This question resonated with me a lot and thus I decided to create this podcast. There is a huge difference between selecting anything and being selective.
When we select anything we take the next thing that shows up in our life - the next relationship, the next job, the next friend, the next boot camp and we don’t select the thing that we WANT at our deepest desire.
This is a major distinction. Let me say that again. This is a major distinction.
Your goal can be to get fit or find a new healthier relationship but if you take the next workout that comes your way it’s probably not going to be specific to the fitness goals you’re trying to achieve. 
If you take the next man/woman who shows up in your life, they will [...]