Expectations: The Ultimate Premeditated Resentment
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What happens when we're let down or disappointed by someone?
When our expectations aren’t met a predictable pattern of feelings & behaviors emerge:
- We hope 'someone' will say/do something that is perceived as a want or need in our life; Feeling: hopeful
- We spend time wishing/wondering/waiting for the want/ need to be fulfilled; Feeling: anticipation, anxious)
- Result is not what we hoped for; Short term Feeling: disappointment, sadness
- Long Term PROBLEM: As similar experiences occur, the short term feelings of disappointment & sadness can evolve into feelings of anger& resentment for those that don’t fulfill our expectations.
Can you relate?
What happens to your relationship with those people?.....your relationship with yourself?.... & the way you relate to the world when it comes to the “T” word- Trust ? Not so pretty is it?
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