Bigger is not always better.
Big crowds are not always better
For Bruce, nothing beats dancing in a room with your closest friends while listening to your favorite music. He said he prefers parties where the DJ is dancing on the dance floor with everyone else, and not massive events (known in the culture as “massives”) with big stages and 50,000 people. A good party has “smallish rooms, biggish sound systems, quality crowds, not quantity crowds, and no judgment.”

“I’ve danced to the top tier of DJs, on the most expensive sound systems, while witnessing the most immersive visual presentations of lights and lasers. Dancing in a room alone with my closest friends is always much more fun,” he said."

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