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VWP025: One Difference Between Dating and Marriage

VWP025: One Difference Between Dating and Marriage

One difference Between Dating and Marriage One difference between dating and marriage is you need to know what you value and you need to have it very strongly anchored in your core. You need to be able to draw upon it at any time. Because believe me, that gorgeous person who is a real jerk or bitch is going to come along.  And they will string you along. They will toy with you. They will tell you what you want to hear. You have to draw on your own strength of character and have the courage to say no. Just say no. This person does not have the qualities that I want . . . and move on. It’s not easy sometimes I know. But it is essential for your long term happiness and for the long term happiness of your future children if you have them.It truly does take courage. But even before that it takes knowing what you value in life for yourself, for your family and for your community. Date, evaluate, discard . . . and keep going until you date, evaluate and keep. That’s the first step. There ar