Who ever thought that a bully could be a good thing? Do you? What do you do and where do you go when the bully of the department or organization shows up? How do you make the correct choice when the bully pushes your buttons? Bullies are not what they appear to be and the greatest disservice we do for ourselves is relating to them in the same way we did when 8, 9 or 10 years old. When someone in your life takes a “position”, such as bullying, they can be a powerful teacher for you. That positional relating allows you to take a look at where your emotional intelligence gaps are and manage them better. Tune in so we can give you a few ideas that you can use right awa. Dissolve the hold bullies have on you, friends. It's as easy as listening.