In this episode we discuss taking on the drama of a family. Lora talks about her manta of "That's not my table." Like a good waitress, you can provide excellent service without getting involved with family issues that you can't solve. Sue uses her saying of "That is not my circus. Those are not my monkeys" to remind her and all of us that there are things we can not control as nannies and we need to remember to find a way to define what concerns us and how to let go of things out of our control.