Intimacy In Marriage - Part 4. "WARNING - This lesson deals with subject matter appropriate for married couples only"
The focus for intimacy between husband and wife should be to please the other and not them selves. I Cor. 7:2-5
It's ok to dress differently to fit your spouses fantasy as long as you don't take it to the level of being somebody you are not.
Enjoy intimacy with your spouse but you should not defile the bedroom with pornography.