In this time and day relationships (more often than not) are not (just) between a man and a woman. You have the mother or father of their children, who are often right in the middle of the situation. How do you know if the man or woman your thinking of dating is being truthful about the relationship between them and the mother/father of their children? How do you deal with the difficulties? When they say they have a crazy baby mama/daddy is it because the person is crazy or did the person your about to date make them that way?