There is a Big Complaint that is repeated. Where is the Romance? The tenderness and intimacy is not being nutured in relationships anymore. Men and Women both have alot to work on. Many Women think that Men do not require Romance which is false. Many Men feel once they got the Woman the work is over and it is time to relax. If you want to make your relationship a success you have to put the work in. What you put IN is what you get OUT!