He or She is really nice, you have a great time with them, you seem to get along so well. You can clearly see a life and relationship with that special guy or girl you are starting to fall for.
Maybe you have invested time in them, special dates, trips, gifts. Month by month goes by... its turns into years... but the committment never comes.
There is always this back and forth tug of war going on. What you have verses what you want, but the time is never right, the problems just seem to much, things are never really clear, and you never get a straight up answer to the question. Will you be my girlfriend/boyfriend.
You guessed it... YOUR THE BACK UP DUDE OR CHICK.
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