God’s design for marriage includes an authority structure that calls for wives to respect their husband’s position of leadership in voluntary submission. But what does God expect from husbands? Strangely, Paul gives no instructions on how to lead. Rather, he calls for sacrificial love that treats your wife as well as you treat yourself! This “sanctified self-love” has as its goal to make your wife’s life-experience the best it can be, to the glory of God.