There is a visual for this thing. Go to the website and look for "The Core." When you're well-rounded, there is a center to your roundedness. What's in your center? What activities and skills are you surrounding yourself with to get to the center of that core? The things that aren't on-target with your nucleus, will create a spike in your spiral toward your core. Are all the other little things in your life leading you toward the thing you want to do nothing but do? Hobbies will get cut first because they are the spikes in your circle. Include the people around you in the shape of your orbit.
2 - What Do You Want To Do?: https://soundcloud.com/creativecombat/two-what-do-you-want-to-do-i-worked-at-a-meat-factory
6 - Setting Goals: https://soundcloud.com/creativecombat/six-setting-goals-sometimes-youre-crawling
15 - What Does Victory Look Like?: https://soundcloud.com/creativecombat/fifteen-what-does-victory-look-like-because-obviously-michael-bay-screwed-it-up
12 - Don't Quit Your Day