While on her fiancé's family reunion cruise, a listener discovers that he was previously married and has two adult children that he hadn't told her about during their 3-year relationship. His reason for not telling her was that he didn't think it was important since the marriage ended 15-20 years ago and he is estranged from the children. She no longer feels she can trust him and asks Mimi for her perspective on the matter.
Another listener and her partner moved in together 3 months ago. While home alone one day, she heard noises and realized that her partner's mother had let herself into the house unannounced. The listener explains that she doesn't want to be disrespectful to her partner's mother, but she's not comfortable with her (or anyone) having keys to their home.
She asks for Mimi's opinion because her partner says she didn't bring it up because she didn't think it was a big deal and that her mother has keys to all her kid's homes.